I’ve met a lot of single women who feel guilty about putting themselves first. A lot of them allow pressure from their families, friends, jobs, careers, or others to control and dictate how they should live their lives and spend their time. I often challenge that. Unapologetically. There’s nothing wrong with putting yourself first. It’s not selfish. I believe most single women are some of the most selfless people on the planet. Many are involved in community and volunteer activities, mentorship, occasional stand-in babysitters when available, take care of their parents, donate time and money to good causes, and show up for the other bachelorettes in their lives. And just because you’re single doesn’t mean your time or well-being isn’t important too. Sometimes you should put yourself first. How do you do so? Say No (Without Explaining Yourself). You can say no to certain requests that demand your time or energy. And you can do so without explaining you...
Writer. Storyteller. Unconventional Believer.