Making Waves

The Cavalier Hotel in Virginia Beach is iconic. Not only does it hold rich beauty, history, and culture, but there’s also a lovely restaurant in the hotel called Becca. I’d visited Becca for brunch with a friend before and thought it’d be a great spot to visit again with my mother. We both went for brunch a while back, and I really enjoyed the food and atmosphere there. The customer service and dining were exceptional, and the sights were breathtaking. Whenever I go to The Cavalier Hotel, I always feel like I’m getting vibes from The Great Gatsby , which is arguably one of the best books ever. If you’re in the Hampton Roads area and looking for a fancy spot to dine, head into Becca and enjoy.  

Earlier this year, I’d been praying about getting into a serious relationship.   Shortly after I started praying, it seemed as if guys started popping up from all over the place – through my social media inbox, through some serendipitous encounters whenever I was out minding my business, and even through a close friend who asked if she could give my number to a guy she knew and wanted to introduce me to (who ultimately ended up never reaching out). Some of these encounters went nowhere, were very surface-level and superficial, and felt like a complete waste of my time. Beyond a few casual conversations and little to no chemistry or follow ups, I found myself disappointed at every turn.    And then I ran into someone who almost immediately struck my interest. He was nice, smart, and well put together. Though we didn’t know each other long, we chatted a bit and kept randomly crossing paths. So when I noticed he didn’t have a ring on his finger, I wondered if he was truly available. I cou

Imagine waking up to your best life. In this best life scenario, you’ve worked hard to get where you are, are finally experiencing the fruits of your labor, and are blessed beyond measure. All your basic needs have been met. You also have a great family and incredible friends, you’re employed and have an income, and things are going very well for you. And then, without notice, your best life begins to get a little uncomfortable when you experience an awful aching in your body. You dismiss it as nothing… until you realize your aching has grown progressively worse. Then, when you see your doctor, and they tell you you’re fine, you still know that you’re not and ask to be checked out again. Your doctor runs some tests and when you return to your best life as you wait for the test results, you receive a phone call that changes your life forever. Your aches aren’t just temporary pain. The pain you’ve been experiencing is bad. Real bad. Stage 4 colon cancer bad. And then suddenly, you realiz

Before I dive into this, let me just say that I enjoy being a teacher. I’m so blessed to be able to work in a rewarding field that allows me to do the purposeful work of pouring into the lives of children (or in my case, teenagers, as I teach at the secondary level). I work in a Title 1 school, and most of my students are Black and Hispanic and come from some challenging circumstances. I’m also one of the very few Black English teachers (there’s me and exactly two other Black specialists) working in our entire department. This speaks volumes about the lack of diversity in the field of education, and more specifically, the lack of Black educators. In recent years, I’ve noticed how the demographic of students I work with desperately need to see more teachers who look like them. But that’s another blog post for another time.    My eighth graders, whom I also refer to as my “work children,” are the best part of what I get to do. They’re smart, focused, funny, and driven. And before the fir

2020 was a challenging year. Personally, I believe it was a tough one for many as we all found ourselves adjusting to a new normal while living and moving through a global pandemic. As this current year approaches its end, I couldn’t help but think about how last year impacted this year and how much things have changed, and in some ways, have remained the same. This year, I’ve experienced some significant life changes (a career switch, enrolling in grad school, purchasing my first home, and adopting a fur baby), but I’m very much aware that the pandemic has not disappeared. It’s still here, and it’s continued to have a major impact on everyone. Even with the support of vaccinations and mask requirements to help improve things, the world still seems a bit unsettled.   Throughout 2020, I, too, was unsettled as things changed. At the beginning of last year, I was heavily discontented and struggling with my faith. I was working in a field I felt drained and miserable in. I was unhappy with