A Taste At Redhead Bay Café

I’m always open to trying brunch at different places. And when I’m able to grab quality brunch at a chill local spot? I get all kinds of excited. Last year, I had the chance to check out a super-cute spot called Redhead Bay Café that did not disappoint. The location, food, drinks, and customer service were all on point, and the coffee may have been some of the best I’ve ever had – which is huge, considering how much I love and enjoy coffee. There was a bit of a wait, which is to be expected at an incredible place like this one, but the outdoor waiting area had a cool bar and picnic setting nearby, which allowed time for one of my good friends and I to talk and catch up. When our wait was up, I ordered and practically inhaled, the avocado toast, potatoes, and bacon, all of which were delicious, and the portions and prices weren’t bad either. If you’re in the Hampton Roads area and looking for a nice spot to grab a bite, head on over to Redhead Bay Café and enjoy!

The Day I Became A Kidney Donor

About a year ago, I had a dream my dad wanted to talk to our family about something serious. I wasn’t sure what he wanted to discuss, but I knew it was something I needed to prepare myself for. Around the time after I had this dream, I remember stopping by my parents place and sensing something was going on that they weren’t telling me. I tried to dismiss what I’d been feeling, but I couldn’t shake it. Something serious was happening. As I returned to my home after visiting them one day, I was in my kitchen washing dishes when a heaviness hit my heart like nothing I’d ever felt before. Something’s wrong with dad. That’s what that dream was about. God, what’s going on? As I continued washing dishes, I started crying and praying. Then in mid-spring, my dad held an unexpected family meeting that would change all our lives forever. He hesitated at first, and as his voice started cracking and he started crying, he said, “Well, I wanted to talk to ya’ll to tell you that I have kidney disea...

Dear Young Black Professionals

As you embark on your career, I want you to know some things and stay woke about what you’ll be up against. Please understand that no matter what, you have value, and you matter. Always remember that. As progressive as this world and different workplaces may seem, every workplace has a culture. You’ll be in different places where a lot of people who don’t look like you will be in the room. But know that you belong in those rooms too. Spend some time observing and studying those spaces and learn as much as you can. There will be people you work with who will make presumptions about your competence, education, and ability to fulfill your job duties. There will be more who will think less of you because of the color of your skin and try to disqualify you the moment you make an error, mistake, or ask questions about things you may not understand. This will all feel uncomfortable and you may get insecure, feel like you’re all by yourself, and think you don’t belong there, but ride it out...

35

By the time this is shared, I'll already be 35. While celebrating another year, I've been doing a lot of ruminating on where I'm at as I keep moving forward. And so far, life is going good. This doesn't mean everything's been perfect or that I've dodged challenges, but for the most part, things are good. Outside of the world as we know it moving through a major time of transition and uncertainty, personally, I’m doing well. As past birthdays came and went, I’d typically write and reflect about different things society, family, friends, and haters have suggested “I should” have or be doing by a certain age. However, I thought it’d be cool to share 35 truths I’ve embraced while embracing my 35th year. Here we go. 1) If you like and love your life, it really doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks. 2) Everyone’s not going to like you. You’ll live. 3) Some people are jealous of you based on a limited view they have of your life. No one truly “has...

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