What If It Was Your Child?

I never imagined that the Black Lives Matter movement would have the impact it’s had this year. I’ve always known how important the movement was, but after the deaths of Ahmaud Arbery, Breonna Taylor, and George Floyd? Even more people got woke. And fast. Many different races stood up this year. There were riots and protests and demands for justice, and the overwhelming amounts of love and support were inspiring and revolutionary. This past summer, different people and communities were coming together and were a united front. Sadly, at the same time, there were others who remained silent as others spoke and stood up.

And that was disappointing.

It was especially upsetting and painful seeing nasty, insensitive, and hurtful comments on the internet and in the press from different people who felt as if the emotions and responses stemming from communities all over the world were unwarranted and not okay. Seeing different people who have kids of their own be so dismissive is something I’ll never understand. I’m not a mother, but I can empathize with family members, friends, and colleagues who are. I’m a Black woman, and I’m also a Black educator. And the majority of the students I teach and work with each week are Black, so I’m well aware of a lot of what’s happening in the world. So to the individuals who feel like there’s an issue with people demanding justice and the peaceful protests that have taken place to promote change, what I’d like to know is how would you respond if your son or daughter was murdered?

What if it was your child?

The families that had their loved ones murdered due to police brutality, racism, and hatred are hurting. They're mourning. And they are in need of justice. I'm certain that if you were in their shoes and it was your child who lost their life, maybe you would feel differently. You would appreciate others supporting your family and being an advocate for justice and change. It's just something to think about. We all have a lot more in common than you may ever realize, so don't pretend you don't know what's happening and choose to remain silent. Speak up, stand up, and show love and support. We can't let hate win.

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