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The Talk

The current state of America can feel scary sometimes. Amidst the political showdowns and obscenities, a shaky economy, and opposing views and opposition a lot of people may feel hopeless, unsettled, and sometimes downright restless. One of the dark truths in all the messiness is that racism is still very much alive. There’s a lot of controversy within the black community regarding racism, prejudice, and a complicated relationship with law enforcement. More and more black families are having “The Talk” with their children about how to survive and stay alive in a time of high racial tensions and increased prejudice. It’s heartbreaking and startling that this is a conversation still being had in 2018. Some time ago, Proctor & Gamble partnered with My Black Is Beautiful to release a campaign about The Talk that more minorities are having with their kids. Most black people are usually raised and conditioned to know that our place in the world comes with an entirely different set of rules and repercussions, so The Talk isn’t a new thing. It’s a reminder. In light of a continued spread of hatred and ignorance, now more than ever, it’s important we’re all informed and prayerfully know better and do better too. To see the campaign for The Talk please click here. Stay informed. 
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