Something Jerry Maguire Taught Me

In the 1996 Cameron Crowe film Jerry Maguire, Tom Cruise plays a sports agent who after having an attack of conscience over the way his firm works and manages clients, decides to write a company memo to express the need for more quality and purposeful relationships with the athletes managed. After his memo is released his company fires him (as they don’t share the same sentiments Jerry expresses) later prompting Jerry to build his own sports management company. Along the way one of the employees (who he later falls in love with #spoileralert) from his former firm, joins him on his journey of highs and lows as he manages his one and only client, a football player named Rod Tidwell, and in the process, Jerry begins to learn a lot about life, love, and what it means to establish purposeful relationships in massive ways.

This film is well-known for two lines: You complete me and show me the money! But I gleaned something deeper from the film than those quotes or a romantic-comedy plotline: the relationship between Jerry and his client, Rod. When Jerry is fired, and Rod agrees to keep Jerry as his agent, they both endure a lot of challenges together as they try to renegotiate Rod’s professional football contract and career. Jerry believes in Rod, even during some of their lowest and most discouraging moments. And as the film progresses, the vision Jerry had in mind for establishing quality and purposeful relationships begins to unfold. When I think about work or any career opportunities, my mindset goes far beyond a paycheck or accolades as well. I enjoy doing meaningful work, investing in other people, helping them see their potential, and encouraging them to believe in themselves.

Quality and purposeful relationships should be at the forefront. It’s an incredible investment. If you can establish those things, profit and praise usually follow anyway.

Towards the film’s conclusion, Rod lands a lucrative contract deal and as he thanks his loved ones, he also thanks his agent, Jerry Maguire, who he refers to as his “Ambassador of Quan.” The word quan has a significant meaning throughout the film and if you’ve never seen this movie, I highly recommend watching it. Pay attention to the meaning of quan. Jerry Maguire is a great film to take in with Thanksgiving coming up. Check it out.

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