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25 Things You Probably Didn’t Know About Me

I enjoy expressing myself through writing and letting people get to know me through my work. That said, I thought it’d be fun to share some different things you probably don’t know about me. This is a fun exercise and if you have time, you should make your own list too. Enjoy J 

·      I was a safety patrol in elementary school. Being an 11-year-old with that kind of power was too cool. Plus, getting a badge, hat, and safety patrol of the month made the job even better. 
·      I have a shoebox full of handwritten letters and keepsake cards from different occasions and seasons of my life. I love handwritten letters – they’re so thoughtful.
·     My parents were originally going to name me Echo.
·     Jim Carrey is my favorite comedian. He’s hilarious! Dumber & Dumber, The Cable Guy, and Liar Liar are some of my favorites. 
·     My favorite flower is the sunflower.
·      I enjoy all kinds of music but I’m really into ‘90s Alternative (Third Eye Blind, R.E.M., Radiohead, Nirvana, Oasis, Green Day, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Alanis Morissette, No Doubt, The Cranberries, Gin Blossoms, and more….) 
·     In my early twenties, I had a thing for Anderson Cooper. On Friday nights I’d be glued to CNN watching Anderson Cooper 360. He’s just so smart and handsome. And he’s a brilliant journalist.
·     My favorite musical is Grease. I’ve watched it so many times I’ve lost count.
·      I have two tattoos. One on my back of my favorite bible scripture, Hebrews 11:1, and a mother/daughter infinity symbol on my forearm. My mom has the same one too.
·      I collect movie stubs from the movies I see in theaters. I do this with concert tickets too. 
·     I’ve been in two commercials. They were for local businesses. 
·      I have an incredible and eclectic DVD collection. I love watching movies when I have some downtime.
·      I like cleaning the lint out of the dryer filter. I find it soothing. 
·     I’ve seen every episode of The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air at least three times. Probably more.
·      I write for an hour almost every single day. Except for the sabbath…sometimes. Yes, I love writing that much. 
·      I love giving and getting hugs. They’re free! And one of the best expressions of love. At least I believe so. 
·     What’s Your Fantasy by Ludacris and Get Low by Lil’ Jon & The Eastside Boyz are two of my low-key guilty pleasure songs. I know those songs are naughty and raunchy, but whenever they come on and close family and/or friends are around, instant dancing, laughter, and lip syncing begin. Life is short. You can’t take yourself too seriously.  
·     I’m a bit of an introvert and really shy if I don’t know you well (which is why I find it funny yet flattering when some people perceive or think of me as confident or extroverted.) 
·      I have the power to resuscitate life. I’m no superhero... but I am CPR certified. 
·     I’ve written three books. They’re unpublished but I’m working on changing that.  
·      I often wonder if I’m destined to remain a single woman. I used to be afraid of being alone, but I’ve adapted to the point where I know I’ll be okay no matter what.
·      I used to be a violinist and was involved with orchestra for six years. I can still play Twinkle, Twinkle, Little StarHappy Birthday, and We Wish You A Merry Christmas
·     When I was into Twilight, I was Team Edward. I also went to the midnight premieres when the remaining four films released. I was that girl. Good times. 
·      I sometimes forget peoples’ names right after meeting them for the first time. I’m trying to get better about that. 
·     When I see something beautiful about someone whether it’s their eyes, personality, smile, hair, hands, laugh, God-given gifts, or whatever, I tell them. 




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