You could be one meeting, one chance
encounter, e-mail, phone call, or connection away from having your entire life
changed in extraordinary ways. I've been writing for a long time and I can
remember different times when I tried reaching out for different writing and
publishing opportunities and kept getting rejection after rejection after
rejection. I'd get discouraged and think maybe I wasn't meant to be a writer nor
had what it takes to be a successful one. Then something wild happened. I
started meeting different people and when they asked me what I did, I’d say,
"I'm a writer." Suddenly, I’d find myself in touch with someone who
knew someone, who knows someone else that's into writing and could help me get
published. And that’s exactly what happened to me at the end of 2017. I was
face to face with a published author who gave me all the information I needed
to get published. See how God works? When I started taking more meetings I felt
like, "Wow, how did this all happen?" Once I started taking more
meetings I got business cards made (and I honestly got laughed at from
different people for having them) but I wanted to make sure people I met had
the chance to get in touch with me if needed. Having those business cards in
place even landed me an interview once. The woman showing interest in hiring me
was impressed and excited to see I had a card in place before I even had a job.
Because when you believe in yourself, no matter how ridiculous other people may
think you sound or seem, other people will start believing in you too and many
doors will open up to you. In fact, you’ll begin to be sought after. And the
same people who rejected you could be calling you, just hoping to have a moment
of your time. Keep grinding and give it time. Where a lot of people mess up is
in having the mindset that the preparation happens once you get the
opportunities you want. Preparation begins long before you’re given opportunities.
You’re already what you will be before you become it and where you begin is not
where you’ll end. Behind the scenes and day to day of working a regular job,
I’m always reading, writing, studying, and getting inspiration to improve my
writing, branding, and other gifts and skills, so that if and when I find
myself in the right place, at the right time, with the right people, I can be
ready for the opportunities I’ve dreamed about and worked for. I’m doing what I
have to do now, so I can do what I want to do later. It's important to be
prepared for the kinds of opportunities you want before they even happen. You
never know who you'll meet that can change your life.
About a year ago, I had a dream my dad wanted to talk to our family about something serious. I wasn’t sure what he wanted to discuss, but I knew it was something I needed to prepare myself for. Around the time after I had this dream, I remember stopping by my parents place and sensing something was going on that they weren’t telling me. I tried to dismiss what I’d been feeling, but I couldn’t shake it. Something serious was happening. As I returned to my home after visiting them one day, I was in my kitchen washing dishes when a heaviness hit my heart like nothing I’d ever felt before. Something’s wrong with dad. That’s what that dream was about. God, what’s going on? As I continued washing dishes, I started crying and praying. Then in mid-spring, my dad held an unexpected family meeting that would change all our lives forever. He hesitated at first, and as his voice started cracking and he started crying, he said, “Well, I wanted to talk to ya’ll to tell you that I have kidney disea...