I recently had a dream I was
accepted into grad school. When I woke up I thought, well, that was weird. When I graduated from college with a
Bachelor’s degree in English I thought my education was complete. While working
through undergrad I felt something nudging at me about grad school, and thought,
it’s taken me almost eight years to
finish a Bachelor’s degree, why would I go to grad school? A number of my
peers were already planning to attend grad school after undergrad and I was
encouraged to do the same. The only thing was, I saw no need for a Master’s
degree. I perceived an additional degree as more of a decoration. Especially because at the time, I
wasn’t certain what I’d get a Master's in, along with people claiming a Master’s degree would be a good
look. One day, a respected colleague pulled me aside for a talk about this. She
asked, “Have you thought about grad school?” “Yes,” I replied. “But not right
now. I just graduated this past spring." She looked at me with a smile and said, “You can take a year off before you start. I
wouldn’t say this to you if I didn’t believe you could do it, but you should
consider doing your Master’s.” When she said that, it did something to me. It’s
amazing how someone who barely knows you can see your potential even when you
don’t sometimes. Still, I’m not completely convinced that a Master’s is
necessary for me. I’m blessed and incredibly grateful to have a college degree,
but I’m definitely not the type to boast and brag about it, or crave an
additional degree because it would look or sound good to others. I’ve met plenty of degree snobs that are
highly intelligent, but severely lacking in the area of common sense. You can
have as many degrees as you want, but if you’re not street smart, too, or pursuing a degree or additional degrees for the right reasons, you may
find yourself facing challenges your academics never prepared you for. I’ve
also met humble college graduates, who rarely, if ever, bring up the fact that
they have a degree or multiple degrees. Humble college graduates have an
understanding that a degree does not define who they are as a person, but is
merely a reflection of their hard work and intellectual capabilities. I’ve
found that many people who have a warped perception and level of arrogance
about having a college degree are often not as smart as they think, and
typically not liked by a lot of people. Because while being highly educated is
nice and can set you apart in positive ways, it’s important to remember that a degree
doesn’t make you better or more qualified than anyone else in this life,
especially if you’re a bragger and an arrogant, education snob. It’s scary that a lot of people don’t get
that. Not everyone has to go to college, or even grad school, but I believe
it’s great having those kinds of options and opportunities. After all, no one
can ever take your education away from you.
As you embark on your career, I want you to know some things and stay woke about what you’ll be up against. Please understand that no matter what, you have value, and you matter. Always remember that. As progressive as this world and different workplaces may seem, every workplace has a culture. You’ll be in different places where a lot of people who don’t look like you will be in the room. But know that you belong in those rooms too. Spend some time observing and studying those spaces and learn as much as you can. There will be people you work with who will make presumptions about your competence, education, and ability to fulfill your job duties. There will be more who will think less of you because of the color of your skin and try to disqualify you the moment you make an error, mistake, or ask questions about things you may not understand. This will all feel uncomfortable and you may get insecure, feel like you’re all by yourself, and think you don’t belong there, but ride it out...