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Blinders

During horse races horses wear blinders. Race horses don their blinders to remain focused on what’s in front of them, all while not being preoccupied with what’s behind them, beside them and ultimately mastering the skill of remaining focused on their individual course to win the race. These blinders help keep the horses from getting distracted or disrupted with what’s going on around them. This concept was a refreshing reminder to me of the importance of staying on track and making sure I’m mindful of my own blinders being on. I pray about this often.
Are your blinders on?

In the past, not having my blinders on have gotten me off focus, upset, frustrated and disappointed about things like…
Caring what other people think.
Dwindling seasonal relationships.
Past failures and setbacks.
And comparisons.
All of which ended up being energy drains on my spirit, mind, body and time.

These days things like comparison traps and trying to keep up with what any and everyone else is doing can easily deter you from making sure your own blinders are on. And if you’re not careful, caring what others think or focusing on what someone else has going on in their life that you may perceive to be appealing or missing from your own, can cause feelings of bitterness, jealousy, insecurity and discontent to ease in, even without you realizing it. But if you have your own blinders on, you won’t turn into a hater, you’ll grow to care less about the opinions of others, and you’ll be focused and occupied with your own race, and also be able to be happy for others, their good news and the exciting things happening in their life as well as your own, too, no matter what season you happen to be in (even in those darker seasons when things seem and feel awful. Your perspective is what will make the difference.)   

Believe me. I know what it’s like to be in holding patterns, watch others be blessed with things I’ve prayed, labored for, waited on and dreamed about for years (even the most ratchet of people.) I've also had to clap for others and be supportive when I didn’t feel like things were fair, and take back seats I didn’t want to take. However, I’ve seen God shift things in tremendous ways that let me know He’s got me. I always have to be mindful of my own blinders, though. And you should do the same in your own life. Run your race and keep moving forward. Blinders on.

Check out the link below about the importance of blinders. Enjoy.

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