One day at work a handful of
co-workers and I got into a conversation that soon turned humorous when one
co-worker asked, “So, what’d you do for money in college?” There was instant
giggling because the question
sounded scandalous. Suddenly, we all started sharing different stories about
our experiences working at part-time jobs before getting into full-time
positions. A handful of us had done internships, one person had an interesting
story about dressing up in a costume for kids’ parties, another worked at an
amusement park, and I started thinking about my time as a childcare provider, office
intern for a local magazine, and finally my position as an office temp. The
grind through college wasn’t an easy one. But now I can really appreciate that
time in my life of juggling multiple jobs, and working through school. Each
position helped me grow, taught me a lot about myself, and how to work with
other people. When I was a freshman in college my parents didn’t want me to
work because they wanted me to focus on school, and I remember my father
saying, “Don’t get desperate for money and start doing something like hitting
the strip club.” I wasn’t insulted because I know he was joking, but there are
women and perhaps some men, that may be stripping to pay their way through
college. While I wouldn’t recommend that option, I judge no one. College is
expensive and if you can find a way to pay for it that isn’t illegal or putting
yourself or anyone else in danger, do what you have to do, I guess.
Ghosting: the practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication. I’ve been ghosted by every guy I’ve met within the past two years. About six to be exact. · The first guy pursued me and then got shady whenever I asked him about what he did for a living and where he lived. When he started dodging and avoiding questions, wouldn’t initiate dates, and slowly stopped keeping in touch with me altogether, eventually, all communication ceased. · The second guy was someone I met through a family member. He was super cool, very smart, handsome, and funny, but didn’t want to be in a relationship and acted like he didn’t want to be seen with me publicly. When we had plans to meet for an outing, he didn’t show up, and then texted me about a week later with an apology. We chilled at my place a few times, had a few phone conversations, and exchanged occasional texts, but eventually he stopped responding to me