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Be Thankful

Therefore, since we are receiving a kingdom that cannot be shaken, let us be thankful, and so worship God acceptably with reverence and awe, for our “God is a consuming fire.” – Hebrews 12:28-29

Thanksgiving is days away. I’m already excited to put on my sweatpants, have a food cheat day (eating whatever I want) and spend my day lounging around. Of course I’ll lend a hand in the kitchen and eventually rise from my food coma, but I fully intend to enjoy relaxing. Thanksgiving isn’t just about relaxing, though. It’s a time for peace, love, fellowship, and expressing gratitude. Last week I was up into the wee hours of the morning, frustrated and in my feelings about some things I’ve spent the year wrestling with. When I went to church that same weekend, I received a word from God that helped put me at ease. I was reminded of God’s faithfulness, and that no matter what was happening, I still had plenty to be thankful for. Often, we can overlook how blessed and fortunate we are, not realizing the dream lives we’ve been fortunate to live. So, on this week, meditate on Hebrews 12:28-29 and be thankful. Unless you have a better idea.

Testimony: Great things happened this past week. I met some women involved in entrepreneurship, got inspired, and ordered some new business cards. I’m a writer and a bit of a consultant (I’ve had people reach out to me for help with editing, blogging, writing, and even advice on things happening in their lives.) I’m seeing if I can make these skills, lucrative. On multiple occasions I’ve also been asked, “You ever consider pursuing counseling?” I’m a natural with listening to people and encouraging them through challenges, so perhaps being a counselor is in the future, too. Anything’s possible. I’m taking faith leaps and it’s exciting and encouraging to see God’s hand in it all. I believe incredible things are happening and I’m thankful in advance for what’s to come. God is good. 
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