More often than not, I’m usually right about people
when I meet them. The discernment I possess is a powerful gift. I’m great at sensing whether someone’s
authentic or not, which is why it doesn’t surprise me or catch me off guard
when I find out someone’s been talking badly about me (and thinks I don’t know),
is being fake, or walks away. These three things reveal themselves when I
simply, pause and pay attention. When this happened with someone I was acquainted
with some time ago, I thought, Should I
really be surprised? They’ve already shown me the kind of person they are. I
always pray that God covers me when it comes to my blind spots, especially in
regards to people, because I can see where my willingness to be open to and
with different people I shouldn’t have, ended up causing some issues and
ultimately ended up being a waste of time. I wish I was wrong about different
people I’ve known, many of which I’ve grown to love (closely and from a
distance) but I’m getting better and better at separating the real ones from
the fakes. Authenticity is rare. We live in a world today where so many people
are stunting about who they really are, while pretending to be something
they’re not. If you don’t believe me, take a close look at your own life and
think about all the different people you know, or think you know by simply, pausing and paying attention. I guarantee
you’ll notice things that have been there all along, but won’t become apparent
until something happens, that show’s you who they really are. I’m just saying…
Ghosting: the practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication. I’ve been ghosted by every guy I’ve met within the past two years. About six to be exact. · The first guy pursued me and then got shady whenever I asked him about what he did for a living and where he lived. When he started dodging and avoiding questions, wouldn’t initiate dates, and slowly stopped keeping in touch with me altogether, eventually, all communication ceased. · The second guy was someone I met through a family member. He was super cool, very smart, handsome, and funny, but didn’t want to be in a relationship and acted like he didn’t want to be seen with me publicly. When we had plans to meet for an outing, he didn’t show up, and then texted me about a week later with an apology. We chilled at my place a few times, had a few phone conversations, and exchanged occasional texts, but eventually he stopped responding to me