There aren't too many musicians I purchase full-length albums from these days. But when I found out about H.E.R.? I was sold. This. Girl. Is. Fire. And she’s one of a kind. She’s all kinds of #BlackGirlMagic – she writes, sings, and plays the guitar and has dropped smash hits like Focus and the socially conscious track I Can’t Breathe that dropped during last year’s Black Lives Matter movement. Her latest release, Back of My Mind, sounds and feels like a private journal gone public with words and melodies from a young woman who’s not afraid to speak her mind and express what she wants and how she feels. Her work, vulnerability, and down-to-earth vibe remind me so much of Lauryn Hill’s The Miseducation of Lauryn Hill, and I can’t help but get Prince feels from her too – maybe it’s the way she gets down on the guitar. Either way, she’s the coolest. I love her style, her swag, and her voice, and I appreciate how she’s changing the game. If you’re checking for some cool music to kick back to, press play and check out H.E.R.’s Back of My Mind album. Enjoy!
Ghosting: the practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication. I’ve been ghosted by every guy I’ve met within the past two years. About six to be exact. · The first guy pursued me and then got shady whenever I asked him about what he did for a living and where he lived. When he started dodging and avoiding questions, wouldn’t initiate dates, and slowly stopped keeping in touch with me altogether, eventually, all communication ceased. · The second guy was someone I met through a family member. He was super cool, very smart, handsome, and funny, but didn’t want to be in a relationship and acted like he didn’t want to be seen with me publicly. When we had plans to meet for an outing, he didn’t show up, and then texted me about a week later with an apology. We chilled at my place a few times, had a few phone conversations, and exchanged occasional texts, but eventually he stopped responding to me