Do you know where you’d like to
see yourself in a year, five years, and ten years from now? I do. I believe God
has a way of shaking up plans each of us has in mind for ourselves, but I don’t
think it hurts to envision and work towards different goals and experiences as your life progresses. One day I wrote out different lists of things I’d
like to do and experience over the course of a year, five years, and ten years.
I prefer to keep my lists private for now, but I encourage you to make lists of
your own. It’s simple. Make three different lists -- the first starting with
one year, the second starting with what you’d like to accomplish in five years,
and the third will focus on where you’d like to see yourself in ten years. It’s
cool getting an idea of how you’d like your life to change and I hope your
lists reveal surprising things to you.
Ghosting: the practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication. I’ve been ghosted by every guy I’ve met within the past two years. About six to be exact. · The first guy pursued me and then got shady whenever I asked him about what he did for a living and where he lived. When he started dodging and avoiding questions, wouldn’t initiate dates, and slowly stopped keeping in touch with me altogether, eventually, all communication ceased. · The second guy was someone I met through a family member. He was super cool, very smart, handsome, and funny, but didn’t want to be in a relationship and acted like he didn’t want to be seen with me publicly. When we had plans to meet for an outing, he didn’t show up, and then texted me about a week later with an apology. We chilled at my place a few times, had a few phone conversations, and exchanged occasional texts, but eventually he stopped responding to me