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Wisdom

I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the Spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better – Ephesians 1:17
I often ask God for wisdom. I need it. We all do. I pray for it because it helps keep me in check and it’s a reminder for me to be mindful of my actions, especially when it comes to dealing with people. In a perfect world we’d all get along, agree, and likely not get on each other’s nerves, but that’s not real life. Of course everyone doesn’t get along, but even with that kind of reality, having wisdom before responding to anyone and anything can help. When you cultivate a relationship with God, grow closer to Him, and pray for wisdom, you’ll be surprised at how you handle things. As you start your day today, ask God for wisdom and notice if there are changes in how you interact to the people, things, and circumstances in your life. I’d also like to share this prayer over anyone reading as well: Lord, thank you for a new day. I pray for wisdom over all of your sons and daughters and ask that as we each begin our days that you fill our spirits with wisdom. Fill our minds, hearts, and speech with wisdom, Lord. Please give us the strength to make it part of our everyday lives. In your name I pray, amen. 
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