The Man They Call Childish Gambino

His music. His sense of humor. His effortless coolness. I’m here for it. I first learned about Donald Glover when I watched his stand up show Weirdo. I knew he was on a show called Community (which I hadn’t watched before) and was involved with music as well, but I had no clue how funny he was until I watched Weirdo and his hit FX series Atlanta. Atlanta is h-i-l-a-r-i-o-u-s and very well written. The man is a genius and I love that he’s massively multifaceted. He can write, act, produce, sing, and rap. I mean, what can this dude not do? One night I listened to his song Redbone on repeat and was a goner. He’s all kinds of cool and I really enjoy his work. It’s definitely worth checking out. Get familiar with it.

Check out the link below to listen to Redbone and some of his other material. Enjoy.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kp7eSUU9oy8

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