Weekend At Windsor Castle Park

When I learned there was a sunflower field about an hour away from my hometown, I had to hit the road and experience it for myself. A friend and I hit the road and arrived in a beautiful place called Smithfield, Virginia. It was gorgeous and quiet, and I felt like I was on location for a film based on a Nicholas Sparks novel. Did I already mention this place was beautiful? When we arrived, we were bummed to see the sunflowers weren’t in the best mood (due to some harsh weather conditions) but the rest of our day trip was a blast, and our sights consisted of some of the cutest shops in town, strangers who possessed the true definition of Southern hospitality, gorgeous landscapes, breathtakingly beautiful homes, and incredible nature trails. It was one of the most peaceful places I’ve ever visited and although the beach has my heart, the country life is just as appealing. The visit to Smithfield for sunflowers ended up turning into more than I could’ve anticipated. My friend and I even had an impromptu photo shoot while we were there. I highly recommend making a trip there if you can. It’s delightful. Do something fun this weekend and enjoy yourself. TGIF!

Thoughts From a Black Educator: Qualified, Credentialed, and Constantly Undermined

I’m a Black educator in my fifth year of teaching middle school English, and in my third as the 8th Grade English PLC (Professional Learning Community) Lead. And while I genuinely enjoy the purposeful work I get to do, seeing the growth of my scholars, and continuing to hone my skills in a content area I’ve loved since I was a little girl, I’ve had to confront some unpleasant experiences in this space. I’d been through much worse when I was an academic advisor at a Christian university. Racism, sexism, harassment, and workplace bullying were sadly norms in that environment. However, some of what I’ve experienced as a Black educator hasn’t been normal … It doesn’t seem normal to be the only Black educator in my department – in a predominantly Black school. One of my Black colleagues once said, “It should look like a Tyler Perry movie in here.” But it doesn’t. It didn’t feel normal being reprimanded in a meeting (during my second year of teaching) by an administrator who went in on...

Ditching Dating And Decentering Men

Today’s current dating climate is bizarre. It’s grown so bizarre, that men barely, if ever in some cases, will approach a woman in person and ask her out on a date. Instead, the new normal has become DM sliding, creeping on social media accounts, and liking photos to build romantic connections, which honestly doesn’t sound too romantic or appealing to me at all. As a child of the 90s and a teenager of the early 2000s, I miss and prefer the time when men interacted with women without hiding behind technology. There was something special about handwritten cards and notes, thoughtful dates, serendipity, and intentionality. After having some unpleasant encounters, embarrassing moments, and failed set ups (from well meaning people who believe I need to be partnered), I’ve decided, that now, at 36, to choose me. I’m ditching dating and decentering men. I’m no longer interested in meeting anyone, dating, or creating space to prioritize a relationship. I’ve never been a male-centered woman any...

A Taste At Milk & Honey

I can always appreciate a delicious brunch outing. And Milk & Honey is a brunch spot that surpassed my expectations. I’d originally heard about this location via TikTok, and when I spotted their chicken and waffles, I just knew I had to visit. When I walked into the restaurant, I immediately noticed the lovely ambiance – the music and art were everything. I was also greeted by the lovely hostess and smell of incredible food. I already knew I’d be moving forward with the chicken and waffles, but I had no idea how refreshing the lavender lemonade would be. It may be one of the best drinks I’ve ever had. If you’re in the Hampton Roads area and seeking a nice brunch spot, check out Milk & Honey.

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