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About Being Irreplaceable

Be irreplaceable. You have the power to do so. One day I got to thinking about ways I’ve been able to implement doing so in my own life, and I came to some realizations. One, no one can ever be as you as you can be. You’re an original design, and that’s amazing when you think about it. There’ll never be another you that passes through this world again. Two, because of who you are, you have the chance to bring your personal and unique skills, gifts, and talents to the world. Once you get a grip on those things and figure out where they fit, you’re on your way to discovering new and incredible opportunities. And finally, have a great work ethic. One of my core values is perseverance. Persevering in the midst of challenges and developing a strong work ethic are things that can help you stand out in the best kinds of ways. Others will take notice of this too. How does one become irreplaceable? Keep reading… 
Be Yourself– Remember, there’ll never be another you that walks this earth. Do you know how rare and valuable you are? Growing up, I struggled being myself. I constantly had people around me wanting me to be who they wanted or needed me to be instead of encouraging me to be myself. To this day, I find it insulting any time someone insists I be someone other than myself. I like/love who I am. And you should like/love yourself too. To be anything inauthentic or a second-rate version of someone else, and not be the best expression of who you are would be devastating. 

Use What You’ve Got– It amazes me how some of the most creative, talented, and innovative people I know waste away their gifts by not using them. You’re a lot more amazing than you realize and if you use what you’ve got, whether it be your charm, attractive looks, unique voice, sense of humor, or anything else that sets you apart from what others have already seen in another shape or form, then you help make yourself a little more irreplaceable.

Have a Great Work Ethic– I don’t know many people who’ve gotten far from laziness. I grind hard and work tenaciously for everything I have and want. The most successful people I know are usually productive, working hard, setting and accomplishing goals, managing their time well, and prioritizing. If you work hard and manage to be one of the hardest working people in the room, whether it’s in your professional or personal life, you’ll be amazed at the opportunities, promotions, and rewards you’ll reap because of the hard work you put in. Always strive to do your best. 

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